If you have a brain, pssst -if you can read this you do!, you will experience stress, sadness and worry sometimes. While these emotions are normal, it does pose a real question: “How do I know if I need counseling?”. Asking this question is a positive and healthy step towards seeking emotional support. In this blog you can read about gentle signs that may tell you that it’s time to consider professional support. If you’ve ever wondered “How do I know if I need counseling?” you’re not alone—and this guide might help you decide.
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As I like to explain it to our clients, counseling provides you with a safe non-judgmental place to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Counseling is not only for crises or severe mental health conditions. In fact, most individuals we encounter at our level of care are people who are going through life stressors and need additional support adjusting. Counseling is helpful for every day stress, relationships challenges, grief, life transitions and more. You do not have to wait until your symptoms get intense in order to seek help.
Counseling is in fact an act of self-care and personal growth. Just like going to the gym, counseling provides a safe space for you to work your emotional muscles. Many people seek counseling even when the seem “okay” on the outside. If you simply want to feel better or understand yourself at a deeper level, it is a good idea to explore counseling.
Common Signs You Might Benefit from Counseling
On the surface, it may not seem like you might benefit from counseling if you do not have a formal mental health diagnosis or if you are comparing your journey with someone else. However, there are subtle signs that can indicate it is time to attend counseling.
Here are a few signs you might benefit from counseling.
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Feeling overwhelmed more often than not:
Daily stress may feel heavier than usual and small changes may seem too challenging or too big to handle. -
Sleeping too little or too much, eating less or more than usual:
Believe it or not, your sleeping and eating habits can give you a clue about your emotional state. If you are sleeping too little or too much, it can indicate that you are either too stress to fall asleep or you are using sleep as an avoidance mechanism. Eating less can indicate anxiety as well as eating more than usual. -
Withdrawing from friends and loved ones:
If you find yourself constantly declining socializing requests or even feeling disconnected even when you are with people, it would be a much support to explore these feelings in a counseling session. -
Persistent feelings of sadness, anxiety, or irritability
It is normal to feel sad, irritable and even anxious from time to time. If these symptoms occur daily, last 2–4 weeks, and affect your functioning, it’s time to seek help. -
Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
If you are having more difficult concentrating than usual or struggle with making decisions due to feeling mentally foggy, it is good to attend counseling to explore the underlining issues. -
Life transitions that feel harder than expected
It is normal to feel discomfort when we are going through a life transition. Even the ones that should elicit pleasant feelings can feel harder to bare than expected. Counseling can offer you a safe place to validate your conflicting feelings. Whether you’re moving, starting a new job, having a child, facing relationship changes, or grieving, a therapist can help you navigate these feelings. -
Loved ones have expressed concern
Last but not least, if your loved ones have expressed concerns related to your thoughts, feelings or behaviors, it is a good idea to seek help. Sometimes others notice changes before we even become aware of them.
If you’re asking “how do I know if I need counseling?” it’s likely a great time to start. If you recognize yourself or someone in these signs, it is time to explore what therapy could offer.
Questions to Ask Yourself
Still unsure about counseling? Ask yourself or journal these questions to decide:
- Am I coping as well as I thought I would?
- Are my feelings interfering with my daily life or my relationships?
- Have I tried other ways to feel better or reached out to my support system and I am still struggling?
- Would I feel relief if I were to talk to someone neutral?
There is a “right answer” to these questions and just wanting to explore these questions is valid. If you answered “yes” or “maybe,” it may be worth talking to a therapist to see how you feel.
Overcoming Common Hesitations
I know there are various reasons why people do not want to attend counseling. Some people have a fear of being judged or labeled. Sometimes we end up comparing ourselves to others and think “my problems are not serious enough”. There is also the concern of the time or cost of attending counseling.
We can help you overcome these barriers and want to go at your pace. A great therapist will create a safe non-judgmental space where you can explore and overcome these challenges.
So, how do I know if I need counseling? My hope is that we were able to point you into the right direction to make this decision for yourself. Asking this questions shows incredible self-awareness and courage. I invite you to read more, talk to someone you know or schedule an appointment.
Still curious? Counseling can help you feel lighter, more balance and connected to yourself and others. We’d be honored to take this journey alongside you.
Note: While I am a mental health professional, this information is not a substitute for a formal evaluation. If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health and need counseling in Kissimmee, please reach out at (407) 906-5214 to schedule an appointment for tailored support.
Mental health is a complex and highly individualized matter, and what works for one person may not work for another. The best step for mental health concerns is to schedule a personalized assessment with us. Please remember that seeking help from a licensed mental health expert is a vital step in addressing mental health challenges.
If you’re in crisis or experiencing thoughts of self-harm or suicide, contact emergency services or a crisis helpline immediately.